You’ve just come home from a first date, and you’re not sure how it went. You’re hoping that the chemistry was there and that you could potentially go on a second date with this person.
But how do you know? There are some subtle signs that your date went well.
1. You both had a good time
If you both had a good time, it’s likely that your date went well. Even if the conversation wasn’t great, if you both enjoyed yourselves, it’s a sign that you clicked. Maybe there were a few laughs or some light flirting. Maybe he brought up some of his friends or told you some funny stories. If you were laughing together and if you ended up having an inside joke by the end of the date, that’s a sign that he likes you.
It’s important to remember that first dates don’t always go the way you expect them to, and it can be hard to tell if they went well. There are a few ways to know if your date went well. One way is to see if you had fun and if you want to see each other again.
Another way to know if your date went well is if they were interested in you. If they kept listening to you while you were talking and asked you questions about yourself, it’s a sign that they liked your company. If they were distracted or looked around the room while you were talking, it’s a sign that they weren’t as interested in you.
Finally, if they made an effort to add you on social media or try to get in touch with you after the date, that’s a sign they were interested. This could be a sign that they are interested in seeing you again or even just as a friend.
2. You left the date feeling good about each other
If you both felt good about each other when the date was over, it’s a sign that the date went well. Whether it was the way he made you laugh or the fact that he seemed interested in what you had to say, these feelings are a great indication that there’s potential for a relationship.
If he had a sense of humor that was similar to yours, it’s also an indicator that things went well. Research has shown that people who have the same sense of humor are more likely to feel attracted to one another.
You were able to communicate with each other easily throughout the entire date. You never ran out of topics to discuss and the conversation was lighthearted, allowing you both to let your guard down. If he asked you to hang out again or even suggested a time and place, this is an indication that he enjoyed your company and wants to see you again.
He showed you a lot of interest in what you had to say, and he also took the time to listen to what you had to say. This shows that he cares about what you think and that you are important to him. He probably paid close attention to your body language as well, which is a sign that he was engaged in the conversation.
3. You have a lot in common
The fact that your date found the things you shared interesting is one of the biggest signs a first date went well. If you have a lot of the same interests, it’s likely a good sign that you and this person could be compatible long-term. “If you can relate to each other on a variety of subjects, it’s a really great indicator that the chemistry might be there,” Amica Graber, relationship and dating expert and blogger for Dialed In, tells INSIDER.
If the conversation was flowing and there were hardly any awkward pauses, it’s a sign that you both enjoyed yourself. Also, if your date seemed genuinely interested in the things you said and asked questions that showed they were listening, it’s another sign of a solid first date.
Another thing to pay attention to is how your date talks about other people. If they’re kind, respectful, and thoughtful in their commentary about others, it’s a great sign that they could be a good partner down the road. It’s also a red flag if your date is judgmental or rude in their commentary about other people, especially if they do so frequently.
4. You left the date feeling like you want to see each other again
If you both left the date feeling like you want to see each other again, it’s a good sign. Of course, it’s always possible that you may not feel this way, but it’s a nice indicator that things went well.
Did they ask you about your interests and show genuine interest in your answers? This is a great indicator of how much they enjoyed your company and how much you both connected. If they asked for a second date and even suggested where you should meet, this is a good indication that they are really interested in you.
Did you both laugh and have fun together? This is a surefire sign that you both had a good time. If you were both laughing throughout the entire date, then it shows that you have a mutual sense of humor and that you enjoy each other’s company.
Were they talking about their friends and envisioning you meeting them? This is a sign that they are really interested in you and are thinking of the future.
Did they not check their phone or use their cellphone at all while you were talking? This is a very good sign that they were truly engaged in you and were not on their phones out of disinterest or boredom. If they were not checking their phone and were genuinely into you, it is a very good indication that the date went well.
